Thursday, November 28, 2013

Rochester! (Wednesday)

Julia, Steph and I used to live just a few blocks from each other.  I now realize how rare it is to live within walking distance of two of your most prized friends.  I don't know how many times Julia or I would quickly call the other saying, "Want to walk in 15 minutes??" and the other one would drop what she was doing, leash up a dog or two, and head out the door to meet at the corner.  We had a very specific 3 mile route that we always walked.  A 3 mile walk always proved to be the perfect length to wear out some dogs (except for Khaki), dish up some nursing stories (Julia was a nurse at Mayo too), and essentially solve most of the world's problems -- or at least the day's.  I simply loved this neighborhood route.  Green, hilly, quiet, safe, picturesque and familiar.  It was home.  Walked and talked with Julia, with Steph, with Mikel, with family....  A rich place for my heart indeed.

On Wednesday of our visit, we got to walk it together again!  This was one of my favorite "events" of our whole trip.  And Kamber made it even sweeter by joining us - putting up with our incessant, random observations of what has changed along the route.  Thank you for coming, Kamber!!

These photos are probably dull to anyone else, but these ladies and Mikel will know their significance.  My stomach flips a little just looking at them now.  Thankful for having called such a sweet place 'home'.

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The walk started in front of our old house, as so many of Julia's and my walks did!  The owners obviously weren't home, so I snuck a little peek through the front porch window.  They still haven't replaced the carpet. (gag)
The kids were bundled and ready to roll!
Nolan, Reed (Julia), McKinley (Kamber)
On a clear day, we had a lovely view of Mayo from our street, but the clouds obscured it this time.
And we're off down Memory Lane --- literally.

The fall colors, clouds and crisp air were a wonderful change of scenery from AZ

Kamber & Julia
I always loved this stretch of the walk for its older homes and mature trees.

Rounding the corner onto 3rd street and before the big hills, Julia and I snagged a photo under the firey orange trees.  Love this girl.  So blessed by her gentle spirit and faithful friendship.





Judd Hill - the best sledding hill in town
Hangin' tough!
George and Sally's house -- AKA, Khaki and Scarlett's watering hole.
This elderly couple (who owned an equally elderly dachshund named Hildy who Khaki revered) always left a plastic dish by their watering spigot, and my pups would stop for a swig about 75% of walks.

Manor Park got fancy with its new name tag

Manor Park where we played with the pups so many times and made them sit on bases. 
Oh those beautiful trees.
Hi, Kara!

Almost on the home stretch
We got back to my old house, and since the kids were still keeping it together, we took the short walk to see Steph and Julia's old houses.
Reed switched it up and landed in the Ergo.  Look at that sweet little smile!

Steph's house.  Took all I had not to walk right up, open the door and yell, "Oh, hi!"
I'll always know that garage code.  15533!

Julia's cul-de-sac...  (Khaki and Drew's usual greeting spot)
and Julia's house!
A wonderful, meaningful morning.
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A little play time with the Sviggum kiddos followed --
Pantsless Thor sporting my tennis shoes!
...while Nolan tried to play Capture the Headband with poor defenseless Brita.

Then we hopped over to Kerri's house for dinner, where Nicole was also staying -- 

So many littles -- I love it.

Evelyn, Annie, Nolan, Claire
Nicole and brilliant and "allowed" the bigger kids to play with her hair.  I tried to steal them away for mine, but they quickly deemed it too short to bother with.  Rats.
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That night, Rachel graciously hosted a fondue girls' night.  It was SO GREAT to sit down and have intentional conversation without the distractions and interruptions (as beloved as they are) of a ton of kiddos.  Kerri got the ball rolling by having each girl voice their "high" and "low" of life right now -- a brilliant idea, as it gave us each a chance to pour in and encourage and update and brainstorm...  the conversation was so natural.  I miss you, friends.

Beth, me, Rachel, Kamber, Kerri, Julia, Nicole
and Steph!
 Nolan was supposed to be asleep, but I guess he didn't want to miss the party. 
Kind Beth was happy to oblige his request for interaction.
Lucky for Nolan, Reed played the same card.  These two buds were so adorable in their matching stripes, just quietly playing with Duplos together while the ladies talked.


Sweet friends, just like their mamas.

Rochester! (Tuesday)

Just when you thought the ol' gal had flatlined, I whipped out my blog CPR and revived her.  If you still check this.....  Enjoy :)

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Oh the task of trying to capture our trip to Rochester from a few (okay, several.) weeks back... It's been so daunting, I've been afraid to attempt it...  Thanks, Steph, for nagging me a little.  Sometimes I need it.  For some silly reason, this blog thing is for me no small undertaking...

Here's how it came to be that we all materialized in Rochester Oct 14-18: 
Nicole (in TN) called to say she and her kiddos were planning a 10-day visit to Rochester so that her husband Kevin could study for boards, and did I want to come for part of it?  I ran it by Mikel who was maybe a little bit not totally understanding why I might want to do that 100% - or at least he didn't jump up and down saying "yes" yet.  Then Julia (in WA) got wind of the plan and started scheming how she could be there too.  Then I had the epic Bawl Uncontrollably Into My Spaghetti Plate incident, and the next day, Mikel said, "So, did you want to go to Rochester??"  Julia's plans fell into place for the same dates as me.  Kamber, Beth and Rachel were ALL in town with time and willingness to host and entertain us.  The stars aligned.  And lo and behold, it magically happened.

I KNOW.  I lived it, and I can't believe it either. 

Seriously, I am so thankful to Mikel for letting Nolan and me go. The trip came at the perfect time for me...  It was immeasurably refreshing to be reunited with these soul sisters.  To watch them hold and play with Nolan - for me to get to hold and love on their kids and see how much they've changed in only 4 short months - to share meaningful conversation over food and wine - to hug them (I realized I was hug-starved!)  It was all simply wonderful.  Only thing missing was Steph and her crew.  I was needing this encouragement -- but I was also surprisingly ready to return to Phoenix when the time came.

Or course, as I write that.... I can only think how I could really use a repeat. 
*sigh*

I got to stay with Rachel and Hans Sviggum who are THE BEST hosts.  Their kids are hilarious and darling, their home is beautiful and cozy, they have all the baby equipment/supplies/clothes one could ever need, and Nolan and I were soo blessed by their laid back hospitality. 
Sviggum family, THANK YOU!

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Nolan and I arrived in Rochester Monday evening.  He did great on the plane!  Even caught a cat nap in the Ergo.

  


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Tuesday morning, Kamber kindly had all of the gals and our babes over for a wild and crazy Super Playdate in honor of McKinley and Claire's first birthdays.  On the friend exposure scale, I felt like I went from 0 to 90!  And how great it was.

Beth, Evelyn and part of the gang
                       

Ben, Cayden, Addison

McKinley, Benjamin
  

Morgan who has no idea she isn't 4.




Reed, Annie
 

Nolan, McKinley, Reed, Claire

Doesn't Nicole look pretty??

Addison, Ben

and Cayden

We missed you, Charlie!

these three...


Reed

Chow Time!
Ben, Cayden, Claire

1 year old!  Happy birthday, McKinley!
                      

Another birthday girl, Claire!  with little teeny Evelyn
(It was a lot of booster seats!)
                      

Ben, Cayden

Kaia, Addison

Kamber and Nicole

Proof that I was there :)  With Reed and Julia

Happy to have friends!!!  Especially when you poop through your shirt and Reed is there to lend you one...
                             

Warmed my heart to have my friends love on my kid again...

The Sviggum girls -- Brita and Kaia

plus Thor!

It was a wild, crazy and wonderful party!  Thank you, Kamber, for having us all!

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That evening, Nolan and I got to pay a little visit to the one and only Mr. David and Ms. Marion.


 As per the usual, Mr. David did what he does best and played with Nolan like a champ while I got the treat of truly catching up with Marion.  I told Mr. David - it was the longest I had (A) sat down and (B) carried on a real conversation while Nolan was awake in I don't know when!

Such darling people, those two.  We love you guys.

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Then it was back to the Sviggums where there's never a dull moment!
Nolan's signature face for the week: absorbing the action.  :)

Thor kills me.  As in, he looks at me with those blue eyes and his little man haircut, and I can't help giving in, no matter the request.

The Sviggum girls are darling!!  Kaia is such a little mama - always loving on Brita and jumping to entertain Nolan.  


Oh, Brita - the most laid-back gem of a baby on Earth.



Had to include this shot of Rachel.  What a rock star mom who keeps a beautiful house, nurses the babe, and works out like a champ - but always seems to have time to get down on the floor with her kids.  You are a great role model and inspiration!

A full-heart kind of day.  ...And it was only day 1!